Single mom dating man no kids
This was written almost four years ago, but is getting traction now, because, well, bashing single moms never has an expiration date, and Valentine’s Day is coming up, so why not pass this around to subtly tell that lady with kids and no man on your Facebook that she never will get one. You prefer someone who does not have children because you don’t have children. Someone with kids is in a total different place in life than you are, definitely can’t fault you for that. We’re bottom of the barrel because he obviously has been massively hurt by a woman with children that aren’t biologically his. Who died and made him the expert on who deserves a relationship and who doesn’t?
With that being said, let’s discuss his absolute asinine reasons for not dating single moms. I’ve seen plenty of men share this blog post, saying “wow, so true!
Because children with both parents are all angels, correct? If she’s going to squeeze into something she can’t fit, she would do that whether she had children or not. I will wear whatever my Spanx will allow me sir, and you will deal.
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Conversely, here are the downsides of dating a single mother, in no particular order:1) The kid(s) will always come first for her, and that’s the way it should be.
To say any man would be her last priority just because clearly you were made to be a last priority by someone is ridiculous. Hell, I messed up with my choices in fathers, TWICE! Again, that just has to be the type of woman he gets. I didn’t bring everyone my problems before my kids, I don’t bring them to everyone now. “A single mother has no interest in a man she’s dating.” The hurt just oozes from this statement. James, I am 26, have two kids with two different men, I’m 5′ 7″, 230 lbs, and currently am a cashier at retail store and a front desk agent at a hotel. I bet money that the number of men who lie about how many children they have, outnumbers the women. If I am already “never available” as he’s previously stated, I don’t have time to waste. Everyone has baggage, children are not a requirement for it.I think it holds up well and is highly relevant in today's world.]Not of all of these reasons apply to everyone.Some men are dating for sex, others are dating for marriage and sex, for example. Men, especially men with game, have a choice in women. Unless you’re a pedophile, it is extremely unlikely that a woman with a child has anything to offer that’s of benefit to you that a woman without a child lacks.That child does not need to compete with you, and you don’t need to compete with that child. From sleep issues to tantrums to potty training, you have to tackle every arduous aspect of parenting on your own.